Self-improvement
The days add up or they do not
Three small tools for the part of the week nobody grades you on. Track the handful of things you want to keep doing, write down how the day actually went, and keep an honest record of what you are trying and whether it works. Free with an account, private to you, and honest about what the numbers mean.
Habit tracker
Up to eight habits, grouped by what they are for, each with its own weekly count or rota, scored on consistency rather than on a perfect run, with one weighted score for the week.
What is different here
The headline number is how many of the days you meant to that you kept, not your streak. Missing one day does not measurably change whether a habit forms, so a tracker that resets you to zero for it is lying to you about your own progress. A day you were ill or away can be marked skipped and left out. Habits for OA prep, applications and the diary tick themselves from what you already did on the site.
Daily diary
One entry a day, with a prompt when the blank page is the problem, and an optional note of how the day went.
What is different here
Private in the way the database enforces rather than the way the marketing claims: no browser has any privilege on the table, so every read goes through a check on your session. Nothing you write is read by a model, scored, or shown to anyone.
Stack tracker
Your supplement stack, your skincare routine, any protocol you are running: what each thing is, what you expected from it, how long you have given it, and the verdict.
What is different here
It asks what you expect to notice before you start, because that is the only defence a one person trial has against deciding afterwards that whatever happened was the point. It will not ask for a verdict before the honest number of weeks has passed (eight for most supplements and skincare), and it points out when you have started two things at once, since then you cannot know which one worked.
How these are built
Consistency over streaks
The evidence on habit formation says a single missed day makes no measurable difference to whether the habit sticks. So the big number here is how many of the last 30 days you kept it. The streak is still there, in smaller type, doing the job it is good at.
Private by construction
Habits and diary entries sit in tables that no browser has any privilege on. Every read runs through a server check on your own session, so the privacy claim is a property of the schema rather than a promise in a policy. No AI reads any of it.
Built for a bad week
Weekly targets instead of pass or fail, a fortnight of backfill for the days you forgot, and a prompt on the diary for when the blank page is the actual problem. A tracker that only works when life is going well gets deleted in the week it was needed.
Decide before you can see the result
The stack tracker asks what you expect to notice before you start, shows it back when you rate it, and will not ask for a verdict before the honest number of weeks has passed. On a sample of one, the written-down prediction is most of the method.
Questions
If today is heavier than a diary can hold
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